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Rich and Wondrously Blest Mom

The Lord has stirred in me a thankfulness for my children this Mother’s Day more than ever before. And I am so grateful, as this feeling and perspective is often lost in the day in and day out training, teaching, feeding, clothing, correcting, sympathizing, and all around sacrificial and selfless nurturing that parenting requires.

And this thankfulness was Katy’s heart and perspective, one that ever since I read about, I’ve desired to possess. Katy is my favorite character in my all-time favorite book Stepping Heavenward by Elizabeth Prentiss(1869). Listen to what she writes in her journal upon the birth of her third child – an occasion of which her live-in, spinster, and all-around grumpy sister-in-law disapproved of entirely. . .

I celebrated my little Una’s third birthday by presenting her with a new brother. Both the children welcomed him with delight that was of itself compensation enough for all it cost me to get up such a celebration. Martha takes a most prosaic view of this proceeding, in which she detects malice on my part. She says I shall now have one mouth the more to fill and two feet the more to shod, more disturbed nights, more laborious days, and less leisure or visiting, reading, music, and drawing.

Well! This is one side of the story, to be sure, but I look at the other. Here is a sweet fragrant mouth to kiss; here are two more feet to make music with their pattering around my nursery. Here is a soul to train for God; and the body in which it dwells is worthy all it will cost, since it is the abode of a kingly tenant. I may see less of friends, but I have gained one dearer than them all, to whom, while I minister in Christ’s name, I make a willing sacrifice of what little leisure for my own recreation my other darlings had left me. Yes, my precious baby, you are welcome to your mother’s heart, welcome to her time, her strength, her health, her tenderest cares, to her lifelong prayers! Oh, how rich I am, how truly, how wondrously blest!

My oldest will turn 13 next month and I can hardly believe it. If he leaves for college, that gives me a short 5 years left to nurture and train him “in the way he should go.” It doesn’t seem like enough, and yet I know he is on loan to me from a Heavenly Parent who is completely trustworthy and faithful. May my heart grow in thankfulness for these gifts that are my children. May I fully embrace this calling of “Mom” – right now. Other callings tempt me to satisfy myself in more instantly gratifying ways. May I persevere in love, patience, and a nurturing spirit while they are young and so near to me. May I, in the power of Christ, give myself away for the sake of Him and those with whom He has entrusted me.

Behold, children are a gift of the LORD,
The fruit of the womb is a reward.
Like arrows in the hand of a warrior,
So are the children of one’s youth.
How blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them;
They will not be ashamed
When they speak with their enemies in the gate
Psalm 127:3-5

(P.S. I have often said- jokingly – well sorta jokingly – that I can’t be friends with someone who does not like the book Stepping Heavenward. Upon having the privilege to meet Elisabeth Eliott over lunch several years ago, I told her this, knowing that it is also one of her favorite books. She looked across the table at me with her steely blue eyes and replied, “Well then, you and I can be friends.” Swoon.)

3 thoughts on “Rich and Wondrously Blest Mom

  1. I read it on your recommendation (actually, did you give it to me?) and loved it! Might be time to go and get it off the shelf… 🙂

  2. I love that excerpt! It convicts me to think of this time, such little time I have with them. Maisie will be 12 in a few short weeks! Ah!

    Thank your teaching me how to be a better mommy each time I am with you.

    ~Melissa

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